Dr. Bloodgood’s Approach to
Sex and Relational Guidance
With nearly a quarter century of experience assisting individuals and couples who have encountered problems that stand in the way of achieving personal, relational and sexual goals, Dr. Bloodgood has seen and heard it all – and the common thread always centers around one (or both) partners feeling unfulfilled.
The tendency for couples is to look outward for a resolution, but decades of working with couples has proven that the quickest fix comes from trusting the couple’s own personal competencies and life skills as Dr. Bloodgood guides them through the discovery and improvement process.
Sex Talk Online Course
The Sex Talk Online Course breaks down your sexual relationship into basic building blocks, and guides you through how to assemble them into the sexual partnership you’ve always wanted. I’ve condensed advice and activities that some couples have taken years to learn into 12 easy to manage “exercises”.
You’ll get proven processes, gain priceless insight, and reprogram your brain for superhuman intimacy and sexual fulfillment.
Fanning the Flames: Revving Up the Romance in Your Relationship Ebook
Fanning the Flames packs the equivalent of months of relationship coaching into 26 pages of specific suggestions, proven ideas, and time tested methods for tuning up and reinvigorating relationships The ideas you will find in this book have been shared with 100s of couples who decided they didn’t need “intensive couples therapy”. They just need straight forward suggestions and answers that would strengthen and enrich their relationship.
How Sex Talk Online Can Enhance Your Sexual Relationship
The Sex Talk Online course gets couples to open up about their intimate needs and desires through simple actions that create BIG reactions. You can finally find out exactly what your partner is thinking and wanting from you as a sexual partner.
Start the course, and you will quickly understand exactly why Sex Talk Online students are off their phones, away from the TV, home from work early, and getting down in the bedroom on a regular basis – without fear, anxiety, or boredom.
Stop Repeating the Same Old Issues
Do you frequently encounter the same painfully familiar conflicts with which you have struggled for a prolonged period of time? You can move past the same old issues.
Get Rid of Negative Criticism
Looking at your relationships do you see evidence of Criticism, Contempt, Defensiveness, or Withdrawal (all of which can be toxic and destructive to any relationship)? You can rid your relationship of all that negative influence.
Get Back to What it Once Was
Does anger, frustration and resentment now mar the peaceful and satisfying relationship you once had (or hoped for)? You can resolve these issues and get back to the good ol’ days.
Move past Painful Memories
Do events from the past continue to create impediments to your peace and wellbeing? You can move forward and beyond issues that have stood in the way of your peace for so long.
Connect With Each Other More
Are there foundational differences in your approaches to romance, affection, intimacy and sex that stand in the way of satisfaction? Learn to communicate in a way that bridges those gaps to open new ideas and avenues of intimacy.
Build Trust in Each Other
Has infidelity or some other betrayal wounded the trust and security your relationship previously provided? You can rebuild that trust and enjoy a fullfilling and intimate relationship again.
Kick Your Sexual Relationship into High Gear!
Join Decades of Happy Couples Helped
Dr. Bloodgood worked in private practice as a relationship therapist for twenty five years, at the same time teaching undergraduate and graduate level classes in mental health therapies. During that time he helped thousands of couples in distressed and problematic relationships discover workable solutions to the problems that kept them from finding contentment and satisfaction.
His workbook, SEX TALK: A Happy Couples Guide, helped thousands more learn how to successfully discuss each others feelings and desires about intimacy in their relationships.
Today, working exclusively as a life coach and mentor to couples, he continues to provide guidance and direction for couples whose relationships are not severely troubled or in need of therapeutic intervention, but are fundamentally sound and generally fulfilling. Nevertheless, they feel that in some way their relationship could be even more rewarding — particularly if they could deepen and enrich their sexual experience. In response to that desire, Dr. Bloodgood created the Sex Talk Online course.
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Soar to New Heights!
Sex Talk Online offers tips and tricks for happy couples at every stage of their relationship. Whether dating, newlyweds, or racking up the anniversary years, you are guaranteed to find something tantalizing and titillating during your time in the course.
Don’t wait around for your love life to go stale. Enroll in the course today and let Sex Talk Online rev up your romance and fan the flames of you and your partner’s desire.
Frequently Asked Questions
Will my partner and I have more sex if we take this course?
The short answer: Likely, yes. I don’t know how much sex you’re having now, but it’s probably not as much (or as good) as you’d like. The modules within my courses require couples to engage with each other intimately. So if you and your partner agree to go through the course, having more and better sex is both the goal and the method.
What if I purchase the course and my partner refuses to participate?
Sex Talk Online is designed for both partners to grow and engage intimately with one another – it will not be effective if only one person is willing to take part. Your puchase comes with a 14-day guarantee. If you decide in that time that the course is not right for you, simply send me an email requesting a refund and you’ll get it.
NOTE: I highly recommend speaking with your partner before purchasing the course, unless you are sure your partner will be thrilled to do these activities with you. If you both determine that personal coaching may be more beneficial to you, you are welcome to contact me regarding in-person or online coaching options instead.
Can we do this instead of going to a therapist?
**The Sex Talk Online course is created solely for educational purposes. The course is not intended to replace marriage or relationship therapy, or any other form of mental health counseling, and should not be considered as such.**
The course enriches relationships that are basically healthy. That said, many practitioners prescribe the course as an important part of their therapeutic treatment.
How often do we have to have sex if we do this course?
There are 10 segments of exploration with one video, one written/spoken exercise, and one sexual activity related to each segment. It is suggested that each section should include an opportunity to enjoy what you have learned about each other within a week after the section is completed. Many couples complete one or two sections each week.
My partner doesn’t like to talk about sex. Can this work with him/her?
One of the most valuable parts of the course it its ability to encourage discussion of your sexual relationship in a safe, guided, and controlled manner.
By committing to respecting each others boundaries, and by expressing a willingness to explore each others sexual needs and desires, many couples find that for first time they can speak freely about things they have felt uncomfortable discussing in the past.
What if my partner wants to do things that I don’t feel comfortable doing?
The course never suggests that anyone should engage in any activity that is outside the comfort level of either person. Couples typically find that when they can each give voice to their desires and discuss their feelings about an activity both individuals feel more comfortable and accepting of each others wants and needs.
We haven’t had sex in a long time. Will the course help us get started again?
There are many reasons why couples find themselves not engaging in sexual intimacy. Some of those reasons may require therapeutic intervention to repair and heal difficult situations. When lack of time, stress, or nonspecific lack of interest is the cause, the course can refocus your priorities and spark desire and arousal. Over time, couples generally report an increase in frequency and lasting change in the excitement and satisfaction they experience in their intimacy.
My partner hates sex, and has said “It would be fine if we never had it again.” …Help!
If an individual has a history of sexual trauma, a physical problem that creates pain during sex, or a fear of sex based on taboos imposed by family or culture, then therapy is recommended before trying the course. One thing the course is certain to do is provide the opportunity of the reluctant partner to examine their feelings and to find safety sharing them with their partner. In some instances, that opportunity alone can promote a willingness and interest that rekindles a satisfying sex life.